What is a bridezilla many of you ask? By Rev Paul Davis

After so many of my clients asking me to forgive their stress or their asking too many questions and that they do not want to be a bridezilla, I  wanted to take a moment to really find an article that well defines a bridezilla.  And you know what none of my lovely ladies fit the build!  I have teh best brides and grooms to work with. Thank you ladies and gentleman! So here is the definition of a bridezilla…..

The bridezilla syndrome has seemingly got the best of many brides today. What are the symptoms to look out for when a bride is en route to becoming a bridezilla?

1. She will complain more than give thanks.

This sadly is a symptom of many unhappy people, but it is more visible in a bride-to-be. Brides have to deal with a lot of details when preparing a wedding. If they are not careful they can forget to be thankful for the people helping them in the process.

Even if a bride is doing it all alone, that is no reason to be unthankful. Being overwhelmed is never fun, but being thankful gets more done. Complaining is never gaining.

2. She shouts unnecessarily.

Loud, boisterous, and unruly the bride-to-be who shouts unnecessarily will become a bridezilla quickly. Noise pollution is never pleasant. Shouting causes people to hate and resist helping you. Bridezillas need friends not enemies. Help them get a grip and speak gently.

3. She is all stressed up with nowhere to go.

Stress is the quickest way to deplete your energy. Bride’s who freak out all the time will not only prematurely age and be inwardly miserable, but they will be also branded a bridezilla.

4. She cannot manage her emotions well.

Poor emotional management weighs heavily on a person individually, but it also hinders their relational capacity. Unchecked emotions gone awry will lead to irrational reactions that hurt those we most love. This perpetuates emotional wear and tear, recycling more emotional implosion and outbursts.

5. She is a perfectionist.

A perfectionist cannot be happy with a good effort, neither an excellent performance. She incessantly scrutinizes herself beyond reason, which leads to utter exhaustion. Such a person needs to lighten up and simply live.

6. She is a control freak.

A control freak has to always hover over everyone to make sure everything is done just right. According to her standards, nobody can do anything as she does. This gives her a sense of importance. Her fragile self-esteem and poor self-image necessitates that she degrade others performance so she can exalt her own and continually be needed.

7. She is very demanding.

Demanding people are usually very self-righteous and proud. They are quick to belittle others and boss people around. Such a quality immediately ruins any woman’s ability to elegantly be a lady. Pushy brides qualify for the bridezilla designation for their demanding nature.

8. She is impatient and impetuous.

Impatient and impetuous people easily anger those who would have happily helped them. Because they are easily annoyed and unable to wait for good things, they attract poor service and bad attitudes.

Remember a cake out of the oven half-baked doesn’t taste good, neither does it fully rise. If you want quality people and products, practice patience.

9. She is demeaning and disrespectful.

When you demean and disrespect someone you create an enemy immediately. Even if it is not outwardly obvious, inwardly and subconsciously he who you’ve disrespected will naturally shun you. Brides who bulldoze over everyone en route to getting what they want are sure to experience backlash and blowback in the end. Bridezillas always reap what they sow and the disrespect they endear does eventually show.

10. She worries and cries often.

Worry is interest paid in advance on something you may never own. Ninety percent of all that we worry about never occurs anyhow. Brides who endlessly worry about something going wrong subconsciously program themselves to fulfill their own internal imagery, prophecy, and neurological programming.

Crying is something anyone with a heart does. There is nothing wrong with it whatsoever. We should empathize and show compassion when someone is suffering. Crying non-stop however is a reason for concern. When a bride has gone over the edge and stepped off the cliff emotionally, psychological counseling and Pastoral ministry is recommended.

Fear can be overcome. Fear is self-centered. Love is selfless. Perfect love casts out fear. Be rooted and grounded in love, by which you can conquer any fear.

These are some subtle symptoms of a bride being bombarded with the bridezilla syndrome. Family and friends take courage as your bride (or bridezilla) desperately needs you.

Don’t hesitate to gently speak a word of confrontation to deal with your bride’s situation. You can never correct what you refuse to confront. Nevertheless use tact, tenderness, and gentleness. Like everyone, your bride simply seeks love and happiness.

Article by Rev Paul Davis of Orlando

Brides Against Breast Cancer Event at Royal Plaza Hotel 1/25/09

A wonderful time was had by all that attended this Wedding Professionals Bridal Show.  Brides Against Breast Cancer was represented at the Royal Plaza Hotel By Kerline , Melissa , Lynne, Jennifer, Cherise, Lyndsey and Rosie.  Brides were buying raffle tickets to be that special bride that on VIP night 3/12/09 gets to pick out her wedding gown. What a great event to help support a good cause.  Do come to the next event at the Perfect Wedding Guide Bridal Show on February 8th where you will be sure to see these ladies walking around in these lovely designer gowns donated by bridal shops in Central Florida for a great cause.  The event will be at the World Marriott. See previous blogs for the details.

27 Miracles gets an opportunity to write for Wesh A List

I wanted to thank you for allowing us the opportunity to be able to do this article to appear on your A list

How did 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting get started?

27 Miracles was started as a wedding consulting firm.  The name originated because my husband and I were engaged on December 27. As far as the Miracle part, that part of our name got its name because it truly takes a miracle to stay married these days and that is what our hope is for each and every engaged couple.  Our hope and prayers that when each couple is enraged that as they are planning their small intimate wedding or their large fairytale wedding, that they are also planning their large marriage that will last the rest of their lives.

We have a team of coordinators  that are talented in many aspects. We here at 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting feel that the same value that we place on our brides where customer service is what we strive for and excellence in service. The other aspect is that our staff is a team and we work together as a team.  I value my staff as they are the ones that make 27 Miracles who we are today and that is a company that believes in the integrity of our customers and our staff, the accountability of our work, the customer’s concerns and thoughts are addressed, respect for all parties involved, be it our brides, staff and vendors and lastly but certainly not the least, excellence in the service we provide.

Why is Orlando the place to be for 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting?

Orlando is the place to be for 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting because of the fact that so many couples plan destination weddings to this area.  Then there are those couples that live here and have families that want to come here to Florida and vacation and they will  come out to the wedding and then stay for an extended vacation.  It allows the couples to be more flexible in their selections of places to get married and have a reception.

 

 

How does 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting promote it’s spot on the A-List?
 
27 Miracles promotes its spot on the A List through the wedding consulting category.  Last year I was nominated for one of the best wedding planners and although we did not win, we were very excited to be nominated having only been in business a short while.
 
WESH 2 / CW18 A-List 2008

 

Press Release from Association of Bridal Consultants

Rosie Moore, of Windermere, has upgraded her membership in the Association of Bridal Consultants.  Moore operates 27 Miracles Wedding Consulting, a full service wedding planning business.  Serving brides in the whole state of Florida as well as destinations all over the United States.  As an Association member, Moore works to improve her professionalism  and that of others in the wedding business.  She has been a member since

May of 2008.  27 Miracles Wedding Consulting offers full wedding coordination, Day of Coordination, honeymoon planning, bridal gown preservation, Bridal bouquet preservation, hourglass sand ceremony, wedding invitations, favors, gift baskets, and also the ability to plan other events to fit your needs.  The Association of Bridal Consultants is located in New Milford, Connecticut, and is the only organization specifically

Designed to serve wedding professionals worldwide, with over 4500 members in 30 countries. 

For more information on the Association of Bridal Consultants, call 860-355-7000, or visit

www.BridalAssn.com.

Bridal Show February 8, 2009

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Come visit me at Central Florida’s Favorite and Most Popular Bridal Event of 2009!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

 Noon to 4:00 PM

 

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Orlando World Marriott Center

8701 World Center Drive, Orlando, Florida 32821

 

This is Central Florida’s largest bridal event of the year and they are putting everything bridal under one roof in one afternoon!

 

Get ideas!

Meet vendors!

Have fun!

Win prizes!

See fashions!

Save money!

Save time! 

 

Visit me at the show to discover how I can help you have the wedding you’ve always dreamed of!  I can’t wait to meet you.

 

For more information about the show or to pre-register for your Buy One, Get One Free Tickets,  http://orlando.perfectweddingguide.com/events/bridal-shows/4829/.

 

I look forward to seeing you at the largest and most popular bridal event of 2009!  No matter what stage of planning you’re in…there’s something there for you!

Buy One, Get One Free Tickets!

Click here to pre-register for your Buy One, Get One Free Tickets!  This is an amazing event you won’t want to miss.  I look forward to meeting you there!

 

Offer Expires: February 6, 2009

Motivational Speaker Announcement

Special Announcement

Crowned Laurel Communications

Motivational Speaker, Lauren Pitts

www.LaurenDPitts.com

 

Don’t miss the opportunity to meet Lauren Pitts an exceptionally dynamic motivational speaker. 

 

Over the past sixteen years, Lauren has dedicated her time, energy and overall efforts working toward positively impacting her community, embracing being a fulltime career woman and mother.  Her particular passion is helping people, particularly young people and women, establish goals, pursue and achieve their dreams and achieve emotional wholeness.

 

In 1990, Lauren completed her Associate Degree from Johnson & Wales University where she majored in Hotel/Restaurant Management.  She later went on to receive a Bachelor of Business Administration degree in Organizational Management from Edward Waters College.  Lauren has worked faithfully and successfully in the hospitality industry in the capacity of Trainer, Multi-Unit Manager, General Manager, Director and Business Owner.  In addition, Lauren is also an educator and motivational speaker who began working with youth and  cultural enrichment programs while in college and continues the work today through the organizations she founded, Teens on Track for Success and Crowned Laurel Communications.

 

Throughout Lauren’s career she has been honored with countless awards, commendations and certificates of achievement which exemplify her lifelong commitment to excellence and servitude.  Lauren has two ultimate goals, turning the adversities of her life into opportunities for others and positively impacting as many lives as she can in her lifetime. She is a dynamic speaker who has a wealth of experience in motivating students and audiences of all ages. She truly is a role model for today’s youth and a passionate motivator for all she encounters.  I guarantee that Lauren is the one to invite and inspire your students, members and employees to be successful in every area of their lives. Below are a variety of topics and please visit our website www.LaurenDPitts.com to preview more options!

 

Lauren Pitts will give a National Tour and will be in your area soon.

 

Topics to choose from:

·         Empowerment

1.      “Unleash Your Passion”

2.      “The Queen Within”

·         Self Esteem Building

1.      “Declare to Self-Esteem”

2.      “Who Are You”

3.      “Who Do You Love”

·         Overcoming Adversity

1.      “No L.I.M.I.T.S”

2.      “Pain and Them Live There”

3.      “You are Responsible”

·         Communication

1.      “Positive Mental Attitude…Small Change BIG Difference”

2.      “Positive Self  Talk”

3.      “Two Ears…One Mouth”

·         And more…

 

To reserve your date, call 1-888-826-2077

Sincerely,

Rosie Moore, Event Planner

27 Miracles Event Planning